In the world of celebrity divorces, strange disputes and exorbitant legal bills are not uncommon. However, prominent divorce lawyer Laura Wasser, who has represented high-profile clients like Kim Kardashian, Britney Spears, and Ariana Grande, advises couples to take matters into their own hands and avoid unnecessary legal involvement.

According to Wasser, one of the biggest mistakes couples make is relinquishing control of their divorce proceedings to lawyers. "If you let lawyers take control of it, remember, we lawyers make money from your conflict," she warns. Although lawyers are essential in complex legal matters, many mundane requests during a divorce do not require their expertise.

Couples often rely on lawyers to resolve tedious disputes that could easily be settled through communication. Wasser emphasizes that not only does hiring a lawyer come at a significant cost, but it also prolongs the divorce process. The average price of an uncontested divorce ranges between $1,500 and $5,500, while contested divorces can cost $40,000 to $140,000.

"I'm not saying divorce lawyers are evil people," Wasser clarifies. "I'm just saying it's our job to argue about things for you. Some of us don't realize that our greatest job or duty is to resolve things." By taking charge and engaging in direct communication, couples can avoid sky-high legal bills and potentially reach agreements faster.

Wasser encourages couples to reclaim their power by effectively expressing their feelings and desires. By having open and honest conversations, they can often find solutions without the need for lawyers. Developing strong communication skills is crucial, as the lack thereof is the most common reason for divorces.

"People tend to not have the ability or wherewithal to discuss issues because they haven't practiced effective communication when things were going well," explains Wasser. Taking the time to convey emotions and priorities directly can be more cost-effective than relying on lawyers to relay messages.

In an effort to avoid unnecessary legal expenses, Wasser advises couples to communicate and engage in direct dialogue. By doing so, they can save both money and time during the divorce process. So, for those facing the difficult decision of splitting up, it may be worth considering a more hands-on approach before turning to costly lawyers.